The Marriage Course


Session topics:

1. Building Strong Foundations - This session helps couples to look at their lifestyle and its effect on their marriage and to discover more about each other's needs and desires - particularly on an emotional level.

2. The Art of Communication - Listening is a vital skill for a strong marriage.  In this session, couples practise communicating their feelings and listening effectively to one another.

3. Resolving Conflict - In this session we look at how couples can increase their intimacy by expressing appreciation to each other, recognising their differences, learning to negotiate disagreements and praying for each other (if they feel comfortable doing so).

4. The Power of Forgiveness - This session addresses the ways we will inevitably have hurt each other and how to resolve these so we don't create a backlog of anger and resentment.  We look at the process of healing through identifying the hurt, saying sorry and forgiving.

5. The Impact of Family - Past and Present - This session focuses on helping couples to recognise how their family background affects the way they relate to each other.  They also consider how to build a good and healthy relationship with their parents, in-laws and wider family, and how hurt from childhood can be healed.

6. Good Sex - Sexual intimacy needs to be worked at and developed. It isn't just the icing on the cake; it's a vital ingredient of the cake itself.  In this session, couples are encouraged to talk about their sexual relationship and to recognise where they need to make changes. 

7. Love in Action - This session looks at five ways of expressing love - through words, time, touch, presents, and actions. Couples discover which expression of love is most important for their partner and how to put this into practice.

Registering for the next course?

If you would like to register for the next course, or if you require further information, please contact VBC Office: (06) 877 4606








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PO BOX 8587
147 Te Aute Road
Havelock North

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